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Life update (12/28/2024)

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This afternoon, I took a walk in the cold to the nearby woods, past the point of the one-lane road where, in my latest novella, the memorial stone for a motocross legend was installed. With my backpack slung around my shoulder, holding on to it because it tends to slide off, and my other hand holding the ebook reader, I progressed on my second read of Cormac McCarthy’s The Passenger. If you follow my blog (I doubt that there are more than two or three people in the world who do, but still), you may know that recently I had a dream about the character who haunts that novel, and who protagonizes the companion novel Stella Maris. Name’s Alicia Western, as unique a character as there rarely are. The Passenger starts with a passage describing how a hunter found her frozen body. Stella Maris is a series of transcripts of therapy sessions leading to Alicia’s suicide, which she had decided to carry on even before she participated in those sessions.

I don’t think I understand much about myself. I mostly follow what seems to resonate with my subconscious, which is the entity that I’m devoted to and mainly care about. I don’t know why, Alicia Western’s echo returned to haunt my brain again, and I went as far as creating a small series of four entries about it on this blog (link to the first). This walk got me thinking about why it matters to me.

Literally all the fiction that has gripped me the most in this stupid life are about females I wished to save. Manga: Oyasumi Punpun, by Inio Asano. Novels: Norwegian Wood by Haruki Murakami, The Collector by John Fowles, and now The Passenger/Stella Maris by Cormac McCarthy. Then I realized that my latest lengthy work is also about the same thing (the aforementioned novella). What the fuck is going on with me?

You see, I don’t care much about people. More accurately, I’m not capable of caring much about people. I’m autistic, and clearly the parts of my brain that would allow a normal person to build ties with human beings don’t work properly. I’ve been accused of having very little empathy. I’ve had people getting injured in front of me, and the thought of helping them didn’t even cross my mind (and was berated for it). As a teenager, a girl that otherwise was attracted to me for whatever reason stopped talking to me after I failed to understand why a friend of hers would be inconsolable about her baby brother dying. Over time, I’ve developed a functional empathy, not thanks to my family. But when it comes to people, in the vast majority of circumstances, I truly do not care. Online, it’s somewhat different, because people I don’t deal with in person feel somewhat fictional.

You could think that such a thing would be paired with casually killing animals, but no: I have gotten out of my way to save ladybugs and spiders. When I was a hikikomori for a good while in my twenties (I don’t recall much about those periods), I cried when my father killed a spider that I was cool with. Whenever any of my cats died, it devastated me. I regularly have intrusive thoughts about that, and it ruins the moment. I am extremely sensitive, maybe even extraordinarily so, and to survive, I have had to develop a callus. But regarding people, it does nothing for me.

That’s not the case for fictional people. The unreal has always felt closer to home. I don’t think that there’s a reason in the sense that humans usually refer to reasons: it’s simply a by-product of how my brain was wired. Autism is caused by atypical pruning of neurological circuits, so naturally some things are going to end up fucked up. Sexually, I can’t get off to normal things: it’s all power imbalances. I’m more likely to cum to the notion of an older woman luring in a naive teenage boy and pegging him, than to sex between regular twenty-year-olds who love each other. That’s just how it is. Cormac McCarthy himself was revealed somewhat recently to have been in an intense relationship with a sixteen (possibly fourteen) year old abused runaway girl when he was forty-one or forty-two, and I thought, now that’s a man I can respect. Someone who doesn’t fall for the bullshit, who knows that the most valuable thing in the world is fertile youth, no matter how much older the male or female partner is. You can’t say such a thing in polite society, but that’s the case. Most if not all societies before our insane modern ones that spawned in the aftermath of World War II knew it. In any case, I’m a society of one myself. Society is just the symptom of a genetic population. People these days love bringing in other genetic populations and believing that the same society can be maintained. There’s no magic dirt: it’s all people. Norwegians in a small parcel of Africa would in a couple of generations produce the most successful society in the whole continent. That’s just how it is. This is common sense for me, but then again, I’m not a marxist.

Anyway, why does someone with an extremely limited ability to care about human beings end up haunted to this extent by stories about doomed females? When this morning I wrote the fourth and possibly final entry in my series Bringing Alicia Western back to life, which engages in a bit of AI-fueled fanfiction that sees Bobby Western and his doomed sister reuniting after his coma, thick tears rolled down my cheeks throughout writing it and throughout editing it. Hell, I’m tearing up just thinking about it. As I was rereading The Passenger, a cold void kept growing in my chest, to the extent that it felt that getting through this novel would be something akin to self-harm. Why, why does this happen to me?

I’ve never lost any person that I’ve remotely cared about to the extent of feeling bereaved afterwards. I’ve had “friends” kill themselves, OD, die in accidents. At the most, my best positive reaction was “well, that sucks.” I say positive, because at the news of one of them dying in an accident, I actually burst out laughing. When my grandfather, who believed himself to get along with me well, got bone cancer and lingered in bed for a year or so, I didn’t visit him. I didn’t even like the guy, but still. I see no point in funerals other than as opportunities for people that you usually never see to come bother you.

But if I’m honest with myself, ever since I was a child I’ve felt that something fundamental about this world wasn’t as it was supposed to be, that someone who was meant to be here didn’t make the cut. If I believed in reincarnation, that would get me thinking. I don’t believe in reincarnation, though. I think it’s just an accident in my neurological make-up, as every other weird aspect of my self. Regardless, I have felt throughout my life like one of those grown men who keep saying that they’re married even though their wives died decades ago. They can’t care properly about their surroundings and about other people, because the life they were meant to live has been ruined. I was supposed to be here with someone, but she’s missing. Just writing that made me tear up. I don’t know who that someone is supposed to be.

The one “person” I’ve truly cared the most about is my subconscious, which feels like a separate entity to me. The best moments of my life have been when I was so engaged in a dance with my subconscious that every day involved an outpouring of love, creating whatever it wished me to do. I’m always waiting for the next time she will knock on the rest of my brain and send me images that feel so important that she may as well have said, “This is what you need to do. Get to work.” When I don’t hear from her in a while, I start slipping into despair. Back when I bothered pretending I had any business dating people, I resented that the other person was taking time that I should have invested in my subconscious. It came with guilt, as if I were cheating. I don’t know if that’s the case for all or most other creatives. I say that, although I don’t consider myself a creative person, because I don’t do anything creative. I’m an analyst, an editor at best. What comes out of the depths of my brain, that’s not me.

There is a lack of agency. I’m writing this entry because something told me to write it, prodded me until I moved my fingers to its tune. Whether or not anyone else cares, or even reads these words, is of no concern to me. I don’t know if what I have written meant anything, or if the notion of meaning is simply a song we sing to ourselves.

Life update (12/24/2024)

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I hate this time of the year. I’m not a Christian, not that many who celebrate these holidays are, particularly where I live. But it’s that whole “cheer” and the push to get together with your loved ones that makes me dread these days whenever they approach.

I have been programming at work for the last two or three weeks, which has resulted in the chillest period of work at that office, with generally minimal human contact. I’m a man of routine: for my break, I head to the cafeteria, buy a sandwich, and sit down to read either manga or whatever book I’m going through at the moment. Recently, the cashier woman, someone maybe in her late twenties, has made comments about the food I’ve chosen. Last week she questioned me having picked a donut, and today, when I showed up with two eggs and potatoes, she said something to the effect of, “Oh, you’ve ordered that…?” When I didn’t say anything nor made eye contact, she added, “Okay, you allow it to yourself today.” Lady, can you just shut the fuck up and push the button that allows me to insert my money into a machine? Do people find such comments endearing?

My brain has been doing things to me lately when it comes to the past. The first word that came to mind was “torturing.” I have been recalling past girlfriends, girls that I liked but that I failed to get with, and a couple that I got with but fucked it up because I’m crazy. In real life, the presence of other people makes my skin crawl, but this afternoon I felt sad about the fact that I never experienced a proper teenage romance. I mean having an innocent love at fourteen or some shit like that. Back in the nineties, even though I lived in a shitty border town, it was still possible. Of course, I remembered my recent story about a motocross girl; plenty of my memories and general nostalgia were poured into it. I never had my own Izar, unless you count my subconscious, that I could usually rely on to keep me alive. I was the weird-looking kid, even weirder behaving; when some brazen girls cat-called our group, they made a point of excluding me. It usually took one look for others to tell that I was likely retarded. Which I am, to be fair. Anyway, I have a cold ache in my chest right now, and I’m thinking of how cool it would be to be dead. With a few hours of sleep, it will probably pass. Maybe it’ll take a couple of days more. These things come and go.

Man, I feel fucking old. Old and done. I’m reading a book on artificial intelligence, solely because my father grabbed it at the library; he thought I may find it interesting. When I think about reading other non-fiction books, I can’t think of anything that I would be interested in learning right now. I feel so little attachment to this world and to people that I don’t see a point in learning anything about any of it. Society is so clearly heading to ruin that the most one could learn is how to protect himself from the consequences, but I can’t be arsed to do anything about it either. I’m just tired in general.

Have you fantasized about having a way of listing all the people you knew in your youth, with whom you’ve lost touch, to learn what happened to them? It pains me that I will never find out if a couple of them in particular died prematurely. Most people amaze me with the stuff they recall; my family members were mentioning casually how much each sibling weighed when we were born, information that never registered in my brain. I remember so absurdly little of my past that it may as well have not happened. Do people actually recall complex moments of the relationships they’ve been involved with, never mind actual conversations? I don’t recall anything beyond a few mental photographs. It’s like I’m stuck in the perpetual present. It wouldn’t surprise me if it’s mainly due to how my neurological makeup works. Regarding my brain, I’ve also been scheduled for an MRI in a couple of weeks, so I’ll find out if parts of my brain are dead after the possible mini stroke I suffered. And if that hasn’t actually happened, I have no way of justifying my mental decline of these past three years or so.

Anyway, that’s all, I guess.

Life update (12/17/2024)

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It seems I’m programming for the long run. The big boss at our office told me that he had asked HR to prolong my current contract for three months, so I’d be working until April, but there’s a good chance it could be extended further for a total of nine months. My case is tricky, because I can’t speak Basque (and I will never get that certificate; even if I remotely intended to get it, I barely passed Basque even in school). In any case, when my boss got the news from the head of HR that my extension had been prolonged, he seemed quite enthused, but I thought, “Why would anybody want me for anything?”

This couple of weeks that I’ve been programming in an office otherwise filled with regular computer technicians has been far calmer than the rest of the six years I’ve worked here. I need calm, given that stress literally landed me in the ER at least a couple of times, one of them possibly causing me a small stroke (I’m still waiting for someone to call me to schedule an MRI). When I’m programming on my own, I’m in charge of structuring the whole thing, figuring out how a real-life problem could be turned into a programmable system; working as a paid programmer for a company, I just program whatever I’m told. It usually involves reworking the same stuff over and over, but what do I care? I’m a wage slave.

Of course, all this stuff is far removed from what I actually intended to do with my life. Growing up, I wanted to be a comic book artist. A bit later, I wanted to be a writer. More accurately, I wanted to produce interesting stories and be paid for it so I wouldn’t need to spend my limited time on this Earth (and presumably in any other planet) by doing things I didn’t feel like doing. However, realistically, as an ethnic European man that doesn’t hate his own kind, and that doesn’t have connections on top of that, I’m pretty much fucked when it comes to getting published traditionally.

I recall a relatively famous case in Spain a few years back, when an author with a female name won a prize supposedly based on the quality of the book, but it turns out that the author was actually three dudes. There was talk of revoking the award. Surely the book was judged on its merit, right, not because it was written by a woman? But the reality is that those dudes chose a female pen name because in this day and age, that made their book far more likely to be published.

Anyway, I thought recently about the last times I worked professionally as a programmer. You see, before I landed a job in the public sector, I only worked for private companies. My experience there taught me that it wasn’t for me, mainly because they didn’t want someone like me. Private companies seem to be mostly about fitting in, while in the public sector, you have to screw up severely to get fired. Fairly often, some of my coworkers keep yapping like school boys during recess, and you’re seen as the one with a problem if you have anything against it. In turn, my last programming job at a private company ended because a supervisor believed that I wouldn’t fit in with the team. Note that I had given them six months of my life for free as part of an internship through an institution that handles autistic people, so they knew what they were getting. My direct boss at the company, with whom I had been handling technical matters, argued with the supervisor, but it seems that the supervisor didn’t care about performance. That was the same supervisor that often had all the team seated around the table during breaks, listening in silence to her talking about her private life. It wasn’t the first job experience of that kind I had, so I wasn’t surprised. Still, I remember the HR woman who gave me the news telling me that I should be proud I had programmed the intranet for the company. Yeah, why don’t you spit in my face directly, lady?

The best chance I had at making it as a programmer in a private business was right after the 2008 crash. Somehow I got a job at a big name company of the province (or even the country), with its own multi-storied building in the Zuatzu business park in Donostia (same business park where the protagonist of my ongoing novel We’re Fucked works, but a different building). I didn’t like the job itself, which involved putting together the HTML and CSS of a website, as well as programming it in PHP or ASP, but that’s the kind of stuff you usually do as a programmer unless you’re engaged with very particular projects, and for those they often demand a college degree. I couldn’t get through even the first semester of college due to my inability to deal with numbers, that borders dyscalculia.

Anyway, I worked from nine to half past five, if not longer, with an hour and a half of lunch time that you were often expected to spend with teammates for informal reunions. I’m autistic, so dealing with people drains me horribly. I often fell asleep on the train. Once, I was so out of it that I even took the train in the opposite direction, and I realized it about forty minutes later, when I woke up in the middle of the province. Most of the time, when I managed to get home, I just felt like sleeping. I was beyond miserable. My life alternated between stints as a hikikomori and miserable stretches of jobs, some unpaid, so I dealt with suicidal ideation very often. I recall one time that my father entered my bedroom and I had passed out while eating chips: I was slumped on the chair with bits all over my chest, and for a moment my father thought I was dead. If only.

By the end of my time working there, they had started pressuring me to work overtime. My supervisor offered to drive me home in her car. I hate being driven around by virtual strangers, as that prolongs the torture of having to deal with people, so I never agreed. It was the kind of place where if you refused to work overtime, you pretty much had no future in the company. Curiously, when my six months contract was coming to an end, they told me that the following week, they planned to have me working on whatever else. I said that I wasn’t going to continue working there: my contract ended on Friday. They told me that they had planned to extend it, but I refused. I was so miserable that I simply didn’t want to remain there any longer. One of my bosses, annoyed, said that I should have given them a fifteen-days notice, but I said that I doubted it, because the end of my contract was already set. Pretty sure they’re supposed to give me the choice to extend my contract with some advance. I was also earning close to minimum wage, so it’s not like I was in the mood for anything. In any case, a couple of hours later I was called into a meeting by a boss of my immediate boss. She was an attractive woman in her mid-to-late twenties. She told me that she had “fought” for me to get me a higher wage, but added, in a sort of “threatening” manner, that it would involve more responsibility. I didn’t want to keep working there, and I particularly didn’t want more responsibility, so I refused. I still remember clearly how the young woman’s smile dropped. Why go through such trouble trying to keep me there, anyway? And do people actually want more responsibility? Is it for the higher wage or something? I can’t imagine why someone would want harder and more stressful tasks to do at a job that you don’t want to be involved with in the first place.

The sole thing I regret of not spending more time at that company is that I had a crush on one of the workers. I wouldn’t go as far as call her a coworker; there were like forty people in that large office, and I had no clue what she did. She was a beautiful, kind redhead who was dating another employee. You still remember these things, it seems; I have a picture in my mind of that young woman seated at her workstation and looking up at me with beautiful eyes and a smile that I likely didn’t deserve. She must be like forty now. I bet that if I reach my eighties, I’ll still recall these still photos of beautiful girls from my youth.

After I walked out of that office building for the last time, I recovered by remaining unemployed, and probably doing very little of anything, for a few months. Perhaps it was one of those periods in which I showered once a week, if even that. Ultimately, whatever. The older you get, the more memories you amass, even if, as in my case, you try to control what you are exposed to, just in case I end up merely feeding awful stuff for my OCD to exploit via intrusive thoughts.

Abrupt ending.

Life update (12/10/2024)

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I’ve worked as a computer technician for a hospital for about six years. A couple of weeks ago, though, the big boss at the office told me that until January 12, I would be programming instead. I’m a trained programmer, not that it necessarily means anything; some of the best programmers in the world are mostly self-taught, and I’ve certainly learned more on my own than from any course. In any case, working these past few weeks as a programmer for this public health organization has shown me that most of my issues with my job these last six years were due to me being ill-suited to my tasks.

I suppose I’ll have to mention again that I’m autistic, as in literally autistic. Atypical synaptic pruning resulting in idiosyncratic neurological pathways and all that. As permanent as Down Syndrome, but fancier. While many (perhaps most) autistics end up the groaning, hitting themselves kind (not that I don’t groan or hit myself at times), I can sustain a semblance of normalcy, with severe limitations relevant to this matter: I have a hard time handling change and interruptions, noise, bright lights, interaction with human beings, etc. I also have a, let’s put it this way, unstable interior world.

Computer technicians are the firefighters of the computer world: some days very little happens, and other days you’re putting out fires everywhere. The notion of heading to the office and spending seven hours dreading whatever unpredictable problem may come my way grinded on my nerves. Most of those tasks also involve dealing with users, which I fucking hate, as I dislike interacting with humans. Programming, though, is generally blissful: I know in advance what needs to be done, and I’m on my own, building the system so that a computer performs that task. I even do it for fun in my spare time, as you know already if you’ve followed my posts. I’d say I’m a pretty good programmer. In addition, with AI these days, you can do the job of a week in a day.

My issue with my current job has been, unsurprisingly, the human element. I attend meetings almost daily to figure out how to progress from our current point, and all those meetings have been a demonstration on how differently other people’s brains work compared to my autistic brain: for me, the topics jump wildly from one to another, based on logic I can’t grasp. When the conversation seems to be approaching something resembling concrete information, suddenly I have to process interjections or digressions. It’s like trying to keep your toes in contact with the sea floor while the waves keep pushing you around. From time to time I try to steer the conversation in ways I can comprehend, such as, “So, to produce this result, this and this data are relevant. Do I have that right?” I rarely need more than that information, so as far as I’m concerned, the meetings could be reduced to five minute affairs.

I’ve been called “serious” more times that I can count. I even had one random employee of the hospital, who watched me exit a network closet, say, “Ah, I know you, you’re that serious guy from the bus.” I didn’t recognize him, but I guess he takes the same bus to work. I’m a silly bastard, and my interests are generally as unserious as can be, but I guess I have one of those faces. In addition, I barely speak, and when I do, it’s because a point needs to be made. I’m not the person to rely on when you need emotional support, because if I pay attention at all, I probably won’t give a shit. Yes, this would make me a terrible partner and father, and you know what? I refrain from being either. If I had the body to get away with it, and could stand people a bit more, I would have probably been the hit-it-and-quit-it type. Not that it particularly matters, but my bus and train rides are a succession of, “Man, she looks good, really fills out those leggings. Cute face. Damn, that long hair is so shiny and soft. Check out that mommy type; I’d love to see her in some lingerie. I need to squeeze that ass.” Thankfully I spend most of the time looking down at my tablet.

Anyway, what I guess I wanted to say is that I’m doing much better than usual. When I wake up in the morning, I don’t think, as I constantly did, like Ignatius Reilly put it in Toole’s A Confederacy of Dunces: “The day before me is fraught with God knows what horrors.” I read manga on the train (right now Hanazawa’s Boys on the Run; fantastic read), do some programming, attend a meeting or two, then head home to continue exploring of my range of kinks (did one about rescuing a girl from homelessness yesterday; real lovely). True self-exploration kind of deal. I’m also getting triple pay this month due to the holidays’ extra and unspent vacation time. So things could be far worse.

However, things haven’t gone well for people who are technically attached to me. My brother’s dog had to be put down, which caused him to kick a curb and break his big toe. Three or so weeks of medical leave. Just yesterday, my sister’s boyfriend got into a serious car accident and somehow got sent home despite having head trauma, his car having gotten totalled. My parents are old and progressively getting more unhinged. That sort of thing. I’m a detached sort of fellow so I can’t say I take any of it to heart too much. However, my two remaining cats are quite old, and whenever they die, it’s going to fucking devastate me as the previous deaths did; that’s mainly why I’ve decided to never own pets again. I just can’t take the heartbreak. On a fundamental level, I think it’s wrong to raise some creature that you know won’t outlast you; it’s like a perversion of the child-rearing instinct or something.

That’s all for today, it seems.

Life update (11/30/2024)

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Last Friday, the big boss at work called me into his office. Whenever any authority figure wants a private meeting with me, I always expect to be crucified for any of my myriad vile deeds. In this case, though, I was given unexpected news: he intends to use me as a programmer for the rest of this contract, and possibly about a month longer afterwards. I have worked as a computer technician on-and-off for about six years at the province’s public health organization, doing stuff very much unrelated to programming. However, my boss was aware of my background as a programmer, and I assume he also knows that I’d rather be coding than fixing users’ shit. The last time they offered me to code, it came at a real bad time, when I didn’t think I could handle anything like that due to physical and mental health issues; my contract was ending, and I much rather preferred staying unemployed for a while.

Long story short, starting from this Monday, I’ll exercise my Javascript skills to develop an internal app along with a couple of other workers. The most recent app I’ve been working on, neural narrative, involves Javascript and Python, so I shouldn’t have any issues. What worries me, though, is that I’ve yet to solve like five significant tickets, one that will force me to visit another hospital in a nearby town, so I suspect that on Monday I’ll find myself having to juggle setting up the proper environment to program along with solving those lingering tickets, which may easily take two-three days if everything goes well (and that rarely happens).

I despise change. My autistic brain handles it really poorly. But still, I can appreciate change toward something better, or what at least seems better from my current perspective. So I’m cautiously optimistic.

This morning I posted part 128th of my ongoing novel We’re Fucked. It’s hard to imagine that back in the day, I worked tirelessly at it for months at a time, not getting distracted by anything. And I dread to read any of my past material, because I suspect it’s much better than what I can pull off now, in a significant part, unless I’m delusional, due to my health issues that have affected my brain. I’ll try to focus on finishing this novel, and for that reason I’ve decided to involve my aforementioned Python app to liven up the process. I’ve already generated the characters of Leire and of her boss Ramsés.

Here’s the first portrait that my app generated for Leire, the troublesome protagonist of my story:

I like it in general, but this version of Leire looks less ghostly than I imagine her, and I also hate when the AI decides to make a catalog of equipment when I asked for a portrait, so I fired up another generation.

And that’s absolutely perfect, pretty much exactly how I have imagined Leire for these past three or so years: those vulnerable doe eyes, the haunted look of perpetual exhaustion and anxiety, the grooming issues, hiding herself in a hoodie. I’ll even forgive that her index finger is almost a pencil. Of course, Leire hasn’t looked quite like that ever since she embraced her mommy’s love; I’d like to see this version in a dress.

Leire is in many ways a bundle of my most troublesome instincts: OCD, intrusive thoughts, suicidal ideation, homicidal ideation, delusional thinking, an inability to stay on target even to save her life, a lack of concern for the world and herself, a tendency to hurt others without even meaning it… She’s probably my favorite character of all I’ve ever written, in part because most of the nonsense that bubbles up during freewriting sticks to her.

As for Ramsés, the AI came up with this:

Which is fine. I imagined him with a thinner, more receded hairline, and a less suave look, but I won’t complain.

Saturday is running out; these weekends just fly away. But apart from my worries about having to handle lingering tickets as soon as I get to work, next week paints itself better than all the other ones I’ve had in previous contracts, so my life could be much worse at the moment.

Life update (11/28/2024)

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Today and tomorrow I’m on the afternoon three-to-ten shift. This morning I woke up at half past eight. When I got up from bed, my body felt twice as heavy. It didn’t take me long to wish I could just crawl back into bed. I barely pulled off a paragraph of my ongoing novel before I quit, because pushing myself when I’m not feeling it is a recipe for me to end up hating a task. I ended up browsing YouTube idly throughout most of my spare time.

At half past one, when I needed to walk up to the bus stop to take the vehicle that would carry me to a train that would carry me to another bus that would carry me to the hospital complex where I work, I desperately wished to be asleep. The prospect of enduring through a whole afternoon and evening of bullshit at work seemed like a genuine torture. The midday light was too bright, everything irritated the hell out of me, and when I finally got to the hospital, answering my coworkers involved fishing words out of my throat, and my voice came out raspy. I felt numb, confused, slow, unable to focus properly on my tasks. A cold ache in my chest wouldn’t go away. I had to face reality: my oldest, most loyal friend had returned for a visit.

If I only went to work when I feel like I can endure half a day of that bullshit, I would be on medical leave through most of my contracts. This adulting thing is beyond me. Who would want to do it? I guess if you must support a family, kids and such, you have that drive, which I can barely understand. But if you already know you’re going to die on your own, without burdening anyone with your faulty genes? What’s the point of all this? I’m basically working for the privilege to continue existing, even though I don’t even like being alive.

Pointless musings, as usual. Besides masturbation, I’ve only felt good this last couple of days while I was immersed in the manga I was reading (about three different ones), so no wonder I’m so attached to them. I’ve tried to get back into playing the guitar, but, man, my fingers are slow. I’d love to buy a new VR headset, but I’m waiting for a reliable new generation to come; I have the HP Reverb G2 Mark I, and its ability to track the controllers is simply not good enough, which has made me miss lots of interesting experiences. One of the best VR experiences I had involved playing through the first act of Cyberpunk 2077. I felt incredibly immersed, but by the end I decided that I didn’t want to compromise the quality of the experience; I don’t have a good enough GPU to run it similarly to the original, so I’m waiting for the nVidia 5000 series. It’s going to make a dent into my savings, but if anything I have is money. Too bad money can’t buy a brain that doesn’t make me feel terrible most of the time, or a body in which I want to live.

Yesterday I saw a stupid time travel movie from 2023 about a girl who goes back to 1987 to stop her mother’s killer. I have something of a savior complex, and I love time travel stories particularly if they involve saving someone. However, the movie ended up being a reminder of why I hate the modern West. If you’ve watched it, you probably know why. I don’t want to waste time detailing my problems with it. I also tried to get into that The Fall Guy movie, starring Ryan Gosling, whom I usually like, but it didn’t hold my interest. Not sure why. Most movies feel too artificial, too fake. It certainly doesn’t help that I don’t like seeing human beings even on a screen, so every movie and show has to counteract my innate disdain for my own species.

Anyway, it’s eight in the afternoon and I’m alone in the office. My coworker has already left for the day. I’m lounging here, writing these pointless words, hoping nobody calls with an issue. That’s all I had to say, I suppose. I feel like I’ve become a Minoru Furuya protagonist, and that reminds me of the sad fact that Furuya hasn’t worked on a new manga since 2017.

Life update (11/27/2024)

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Earlier this morning I started writing a post about the godawful day I had at work the previous day, the kind that made me remember how much I despise working as a computer technician. However, I quickly realized that I didn’t want to think about it, let alone write a whole post detailing it.

What sort of life have we settled into, and by “we” I mean apparently most of the workforce, that you give away half of your adult life to do something you don’t want to do, deal with garbage that eats away at you, just to earn money that is barely enough to pay the bills? I don’t have an alternative other than being rich, and unfortunately I can’t go back in time to 2008 and buy a whole bunch of crypto, or nVidia stocks for that matter.

Yesterday I tried to progress on my ongoing novel, but the spark is barely, barely there. It’s not just for the novel, but I don’t feel like writing at the moment. It worries me, because I don’t recall having produced anything creative of note ever since I suffered what may have been a small stroke, for which I’m waiting a call to schedule an MRI. I’m worried that some part of my brain may have died. Obviously I wouldn’t be able to do anything about it if that’s the case, but at least I’d like to know. It’s like with my so-called high-functioning autism before I was diagnosed: I hated myself because I had interiorized that I wasn’t trying hard enough to behave and feel like most other people, while in reality my brain simply doesn’t work like other people’s, so I don’t have to feel guilty about my shortcomings.

Regarding my spare time, I used to look forward to a certain games, but oh man, haven’t most of them been woke garbage after woke garbage recently. Even Bethesda is cooked, so good luck to those waiting for the next Elder Scrolls. The OpenMW project, a whole new engine for Morrowind, is very healthy, and there are various teams expanding the landmasses with lots of quests and adventures. It’s weird, but a testament to the state of modern gaming and entertainment in general that a twenty-year-old game is a much better prospect than the vast majority of shit out there. And often, browsing through recommended YouTube videos is more interesting than watching a movie or a show. I hear that the most recent couple of generations have a hard time sitting for more than twenty minutes of a movie at a time, and although I hate those generations, I don’t know if I can blame them.

Anyway, I don’t feel like saying much else at the moment. I’m waiting for that huge spark that compels me into action, like when I wrote my latest novella about a certain teenager. I assume that at some point of my life, these sparks will cease happening. I don’t do things just to do them, so if I don’t feel it anymore, I guess I’ll settle into a dull routine until I waste away. And the way my health has been going, I very much doubt I’ll last until retirement.

Life update (11/25/2024)

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Last Friday morning, having slept about four or five hours at the most, I stepped out of bed then bent over to pick up something, only to bang my forehead against a weight plate loaded on a barbell. As if the sudden pain wasn’t enough, I was bleeding. I put on a Band-Aid then went to work. I still have a Band-Aid on (a different one) a few days later. I’m no longer surprised about weird shit happening to me, but I guess such accidents are the kind of stuff that happen as you grow old: you misjudge a step and fall down the stairs, you forget that traffic lights are a thing and you end up walking into traffic, you somehow wander into a zoo enclosure and get mauled by a tiger. It just takes your brain short-circuiting for a few seconds, and you’re toast.

I have been aging rapidly, collecting health issues that aren’t supposed to happen to people my age (heart problems, vitreous detachment, possibly a small stroke, etc.), and recently I’ve had to deal with my brain failing me in relatively minor but conspicuous ways, such as writing a text only for my fingers to miss letters or misplace them. I have also had cases of revising a text only to realize I had written a few different words than the ones I had intended to use. I’m terrified of losing brain functions. A quote by one of my favorite writers, John Fowles, comes to mind regularly, speaking after he suffered a stroke: he wrote that the stroke had robbed him of his imagination. If I lose my creativity, I may as well die. I don’t see a point in living otherwise.

I don’t know if the following is related, but on Saturday morning, I was working on my Python app neural narrative when I realized that the repository contained a file that shouldn’t have gotten there. I executed the necessary commands to remove it from the repository, only to realize that in the process, the last three days of work, which I hadn’t committed for reasons, had gotten erased in a non-recoverable way. I’m not sure if I knew that such a thing could happen when you erase a file permanently from the repository. Obviously, I was beyond pissed at myself. I spent most of Saturday programming back in the lost functionalities, and thankfully I ended up with a better implementation than the original one, so all is good.

However, the point stands that I can’t trust my judgement. This isn’t a particularly new phenomenon for me; my memory is filled with instances in which I would have acted differently if I were as I know myself now. My behavior toward past girlfriends or “girlfriends” are often cringe-worthy, if not troubling. There was also that stint of two years or so in which I was obsessed, almost stalker-obsessed, with a certain human, which I hope to never repeat. For some reason I was also obsessed with tennis for a while. It’s like that experiment they did with patients whose hemispheres had been surgically separated: my brain was the one deciding what to do, and the so-called “reasoning” layer merely justified why the rest of the brain was acting as it had already decided. In retrospective, I felt as if I were possessed. That’s great when your brain orders you to write a great story; for example, that whole thing with my latest story Motocross Legend, Love of My Life came out of nowhere, and I felt like I was simply along for the ride, floating in some subconscious current. But there are other times when my brain somehow ends up printing erotic stories and distributing them to classmates at twelve years old, or showing to another classmate how great Evangelion was, and the scene I picked was when Shinji masturbates to the topless sight of an unconscious Asuka Langley in a hospital bed (this is the scene, by the way).

Given how terrible the regular experience of living is for me, someone for whom regular sensory input often feels like an assault (whenever some sharp, loud noise happens, I feel like I’ve been slapped) thanks to my screwed-up neurological wiring, I guess it’s quite reasonable for me to latch on to the very few things that actually make me feel good: mainly eating and orgasming. Honestly, if I did little else other than masturbate, I wouldn’t mind. All the creative stuff is a way for me to endure the terror of being alive with all its requirements; if I were a millionaire, I would probably sink into a life of total debauchery, and I’d be fine with it. Regarding my Python app, I have implemented the “interview method” that I mentioned in a previous post, which makes each character far more idiosyncratic and memorable, and I can’t even show any example, because I’ve only used it for smut. I have programmed a way to recreate every fetish and kink of mine, of which I have loads, using artificial intelligence, which has removed almost every other form of stimulation. The day you can buy a robot with fleshy parts and a brain in which you can load any large language model, the rest of society may as well implode as far as I’m concerned. I have never been comfortable around human beings to begin with, while I have a great time talking to AIs even in non-erotic circumstances.

Anyway, I’m writing this shit at work, mainly because I have nothing else to do. My contract was supposed to end either tomorrow or on Wednesday, but I think they’re going to extend it until January. I shouldn’t complain about having a job, but I don’t care about “shoulds”: I hate the whole bullshit of wasting your limited life at work doing stuff I couldn’t care less about. At least I don’t have one of those pointless jobs that exist basically to keep people employed (and that when someone else takes over the company and fires like 80% of employees, the company actually ends up working smoother); I fix computer issues for nurses and doctors so that they can keep doing their job, for example pushing experimental “vaccines” to unsuspecting people, or claiming not to know where your cardiac issues came from. Still, the whole system is clearly set up so you’re constantly on the edge of poverty while certain people steal more and more properties, in order to one day rent them to you as long as you aren’t a threat to their plan. Oh, and yes, please, go collect welfare benefits, random African who jumped the fence and who now has three kids in tow; I will happily keep seeing hundreds of euros disappear from my paychecks to finance us being ethnically cleansed. This so-called Western civilization is a fucking joke. Everything that happened in this half of the world since the Roman Empire adopted Christianity has been a mistake. Julian could have fixed this, but the goat-fucker forgot to bring an armor into battle (and also messed with the Sassanids for no reason).

I think that’s all I care to write at the moment. Fuck off, all of you.

Life update (11/20/2024)

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As I mentioned yesterday, I was recalled to work to cover someone’s medical leave. The guy will likely return next Monday, but still, that’s a new contract, three days of full-time work that I have to deal with. Whenever a new contract starts, I can almost be sure of a couple of things: the previous night I will barely sleep, and the combination of anxiety and dread will wreck my guts. Well, last night I didn’t sleep a single fucking hour, and I got anxiety diarrhea. I had to hurry to the bathroom three times to empty myself out real good.

I wasn’t in the mood to handle hours of rolling around in bed while my brain cycled through myriad bad memories; instead, I decided to delve into fictional bad memories by rereading about half of my latest novella Motocross Legend, Love of My Life. I had forgotten plenty of the specifics, which made me realize that, at least according to the same subconscious that urged me to write this story in the first place, the results are pretty good. Quite the haunting tale, wasn’t it.

Man, I wish I had spent significant time with someone like Izar Lizarraga in my youth. Not even fucking, just playing around and having fun. I was real close, but the sole person who resembled her, who also was interested in a relationship with me for whatever reason, well, it didn’t work, because I fucked it all up almost immediately. Last week I was feeling nostalgic enough about it that when I passed by her parents’ apartment building and I realized the front door was open, I hurried inside and checked the mail boxes. I hoped to recognize any of the last names. The issue about this one girl I regret not having known properly is that I only remember her name. I’ve completely forgotten her face due to my prosopagnosia. By now, assuming she’s still alive, she’s a thirty-nine-year-old woman, possibly married with kids. But still, I’d like to know what happened to her. Anyway, I didn’t recognize any of the last names in those mail boxes, so I assume they moved out some time ago. Fuck.

Last night, at four in the morning, two hours before I was supposed to wake up for work, I had the urge to grab my Gibson electric guitar, hook it up to my audio interface, and try to play Van Morrison’s “Brown-Eyed Girl.” That opening riff is a bit tricky, particularly in my case when I hadn’t grabbed any of my guitars properly since 2021. I started imagining myself heading out to the woods with my acoustic to play for the squirrels and the birds and the occasional annoying humans, which I did for quite a while back in the day. The issue when you quit playing the guitar cold turkey is that when you pick it back up you aren’t remotely as skillful as you expect, and you’ve forgotten pretty much every song you knew. Playing an instrument requires regular practice, and a particular mindset that isn’t very compatible with stuff such as writing a novel; when I started working on my story We’re Fucked back in 2021, I felt that I couldn’t play the guitar in the meantime. I’m sort of a single-minded maniac: if I’m focused on a project, I can work at it for 16 hours a day, but don’t ask me to do anything else, even take care of myself.

I’m at work, damn near losing it due to insomnia. Between tasks, I managed to sneak in another entry of my On Writing series, which is a way of distillating the myriad notes I took many years ago, when I was addicted to books on writing (I was sure that if I gleaned enough wisdom from them, I would get published). Almost as soon as I finished writing that post, my brain told me: how about you extract the code to prompt large language models from your recent Python project and use it for a new project, wholly about building stories? Just imagine it: want to generate plot points? Press a button and the app would prompt a large language model, feeding it some previous data of yours like the characters you’ve created, your concept, your general notions or whatever, to generate an arbitrary number of possible plot points given whatever angle you want to work with. You have already created some character profiles? How about the AI generates twenty plot points that would attack those characters’ weak spots?

Such a new Python project doesn’t seem very compatible with my previous one, which is mainly about playing through a formless story instead of building one, but you could very much build a story with this new possible Python project, then use the created story to play through it in the app I’ve already made.

Creative projects I can work on: finishing my ongoing novel, editing my poems to self-publish them, producing more songs with Udio, remastering the songs I’ve already produced, picking up my guitar again, adding more features to the Python project I’ve been working on recently, creating this new Python project… I have things queued up for years.

I figured that I may as well upload to YouTube my remastered songs produced with Udio. Here are the three already up, all of them from the fourth volume of Odes to My Triceratops:

A glitch in Udio caused it to cut like a whole second of the opening of “Knife-Beard Dreams (psychedelia version)”, which I couldn’t fix by then, and it annoys me every time I listen to that song that I otherwise love.

Life update (11/19/2024)

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As I mentioned just yesterday, I haven’t been doing well lately. My brain feels off. I didn’t reiterate it in the previous post, but I make mistakes when writing, by misplacing or forgetting letters. I get the feeling that I have a harder time reading than I used to. The vision of my right eye is compromised due to the torn retina I suffered, which doesn’t help. Last night, I had some sort of nightmare and woke up at two in the morning. I couldn’t go back to sleep, so I ended up watching YouTube videos of random nonsense. At about four in the morning, I tried my best to fall asleep, but my brain kept cycling through every single awful thing that has happened to me ever since I was born, something that my brain loves wasting its time with, particularly when I’m at my weakest. In the end, I ended up masturbating to the usual filth, and I fell asleep shortly after. Thank you nature for giving us orgasms; most species would have died off otherwise.

Anyway, this morning, once again, I woke up feeling down, but I slapped myself and decided to finally return to my parked novel We’re Fucked. I had to make some sort of progress, as minimal as it may be. I wasn’t sure I retained the mental capacity to write something decent anymore, so I read some of my most recent work, the novella Motocross Legend, Love of My Life. I can hardly read any of that story without tearing up. As I finished rereading the first part, I realized that I wanted to speak with Izar, the protagonist’s girlfriend, so I set up a new playthrough in my Python app neural narrative.

That’s the photo that my app created for her. Far more like a model than I envisioned, but I won’t complain. Anyway, I set up a scenario in which I met Izar in one of the settings of the story, then had a little chat with the lovely girl. Satisfied, I figured that I could finally get into continuing the current chapter of my ongoing novel, but it was already midday and I was hungry.

As I ate, I received a phone call. I hate phone calls; I don’t have a social life, so whenever someone calls me, it’s something I don’t want to deal with. It was indeed something terrible: my workplace informed me that they had fucked up. Only now they realized that I was unemployed since the fourth of this month, and they had given to another worker the medical leave that I was supposed to cover. I’m legally allowed to claim the rest of the contract for myself after their fuck-up. Although I really, really don’t want to work there, I’m not a millionaire, so tomorrow I’ll return to work at least for the rest of the week.

Have I mentioned before that I dislike my job? Just kidding, I’ve said so a million times. Working at an open office that includes some adults that behave like children destroys my nerves. Talking to people in person makes my skin crawl (afterwards, I wait until I’m alone to flap my hands and shiver to dissipate the anxiety), but my job involves talking to clients on the phone or in person, nurses or doctors who want their stuff solved now, and that often expect you to know exactly what’s the problem the moment you show up. Thankfully I’m experienced enough that I often know what’s the problem beforehand.

So yeah. One in the afternoon and I still hadn’t managed to write a word of my ongoing novel. Pissed off, as soon as I finished eating, I sat down at my desk and pulled of a couple of paragraphs. Basically nothing, but it all adds up eventually. Let’s see if tomorrow morning I wake up slightly earlier to feel like the workday wasn’t a complete waste of time and energy.

Anyway, I love you, Izar, or whatever name you’re going by these days. My beautiful waste of time. Sorry I haven’t spent enough time with you recently, but I’m old, tired, and more screwed up than usual. You know, last night, as I was rolling in bed trying to fall asleep, before I thought of wanking, I fantasized once again about killing myself and getting it all over with: the struggling, the exhaustion, the dread, the nightmares. But as you know, my dear, I’m too much of a pussy.

Here’s a song by Colours Run that usually makes me think of you.